Sperm Donors in the USA- Now Known As FSDW/ DIY Baby™! Parenting Choices 4 All

FSDW (Free Sperm Donations Worldwide)- DIY Baby™ - was Created by 'The Child Listener™ in 2004 to help single women, lesbian & infertile straight couples find a sperm donor- and for private sperm donors to have more choices with regards to who they donate their sperm to! Some sperm donors want no involvement post conception, some would like a photo or even to co-parent! Promoting safe, responsible private sperm donation & co-parenting arrangements - that meet the needs of children born through sperm donation. Offering parenting choices for all!

DIY Baby- Creating Choices!

The FSDW members only area is moderated by The Child Listener™ with everyone agreeing to abide by our Behaviour Code.
Please do complete your profile fully, clearly stating your intentions - so that a suitable match can be made as quickly as possible

Find a Sperm Donor in the USA !

Do you know anyone who would donate sperm privately (or through a clinic) to help single women, infertile or lesbian couples in the USA, and help create dreams of becoming a parent?
Or men who are interested in co-parenting within the USA- without romance?
Please send them here to register!!

Good luck !! Em:-)

Over 1100 USA sperm donors registered already!

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FSDW/ DIY Baby™ - Created by 'The Child Listener™ in 2004.
Emma Hartnell-Baker- also known as The Child Listener- A Voice for Kids

One of my daily emails!

Hi Emma,

My name is N****, and I joined your website on Monday and I wanted to let you know that me and my wife H**** have already found a donor who has also recently joined your website. He said that we are the first people to ask him, and it has turned out very ideal as he is amazingly local to us. I wanted to thank you for setting up this website as me and H**** have been very worried about costs etc from going to a clinic. I was amazed when H**** told me she found your website and I couldn't believe that there are so many men willing to help couples like us have the family that we have dreamed of.

I also wanted to let you know, as our donor has agreed to help us, that me and H**** shall un-subscribe after our first month, just whilst we try and conceive with this donor, obviously if it doesn't work after say 6 months, then we shall join again and try to find someone else. The reason I am letting you know is I don't want you to think that we weren't happy with the FSDW services, I just wanted to be courteous towards you.

Thank you again,

We shall keep you updated =]

(names removed for privacy)

Emma created FSDW (originally Sperm Donors Worldwide) in 2004. Although controversial, Emma felt that many women and couples who wanted desperately to be a parent- and would make wonderful parents!- were limited in their choices, because of marital status, sexuality, fertility issues & more. She didn't feel this was fair.
FSDW offers choices- and not just for women- it is also proving successful for men wanting to co-parent!

Today there are over 3000 registered sperm donors registered within the Member's Only area waiting to hear from single women, lesbian and infertile couples! Contact them directly today! .
You also get a FREE message on the public 'sperm donor/ co-parenting wanted boards'

. FSDW members want to become pregnant through sperm donation - DIY Baby™! - women and infertile couples subscribe as they want to find a sperm donor for private sperm donation, or who will offer their sperm for IVF at a clinic. They may want find a sperm donor for shared parenting (co-parenting) - or to find someone who wants no contact post conception ie anonymous sperm donations. You work out your own arrangement- because how you do this is up to you!
All we ask is that you abide by our Behaviour Code and ensure that you have fully researched your decision and feel ready to not only become pregnant, but also to meet the emotional, physical and financial needs of a child.
FSDW help you connect- you do the rest! Anonymous sperm donation, 'uncle'
type role, even co-parenting- you decide - start by connecting here, in the
FSDW Members Only Area

Testimonials

Dear Emma,
Well here we are, at the end of 2009, a strange year, nerve wracking year, but a wonderful year.
It was a year ago that I made the decision to join your site, at 34 knowing I was ready to become a Mum. I was amazed at the response, but to me I knew I had to find the right donor for this to work, not down to characteristics but just a feeling..
On January 4th I had an email from someone, who was outside my age bracket that I was searching in, from another country (i'm in the UK and he was in Canada) but something was very easy & after a couple of emails it was very apparent, if I was to go ahead with this whole process, he was the one. Luckily he felt the same way about me, after choosing who he wanted to help very carefully, and had been registered for some time.
So In May, we met for the first time as he was in the UK, my dates weren't quite right, ovulation happened 2 days prior to his arrival. In June we tried again, but again the dates were only just within the fertile window, but it was third time lucky when I fell pregnant when he was back in the UK in July.
I'm now 25 weeks through, we have an amazing friendship for life - he has mde this a very positive and amazing journey so far.
So I just want to say to anyone, be open in what you think you are looking for, find the RIGHT donor and don't base that on geography alone.
So Thank you Emma, for your wonderful site, without it, I wouldn't be pregnant now & I woudln't have met this wonderful, generous man who will be a friend for life.....
All the best
H***

Hi Emma

I've cancelled my members account on your website, but struggling to cancel my payment on Paypal, please can you do from your end?

I would just like to say thank you, after my 2nd try with a sperm donor found through your website, I'm now 5 weeks pregnant :-)

Your website has helped my dreams to come true!!!

More here

Quick Links - Most Popular

* Click Here to Subscribe as a FSDW Member and Start
Connecting with Sperm Donors in the Member's Only Area!

* Click Here to View Basic Profiles of Registered Sperm Donors,
Before You Join as a Member

* Register as an FSDW Sperm Donor- THANK YOU! You're amazing!
Join us and be our latest DIY Baby™
Helping Hand:-)

* How does this work? - Read about the FSDW process

* Public Sperm Donor Wanted Message Boards (free message when you join as a FSDW Member)

* New! - Public Co-Parenting Wanted Message Boards -ask for a free message when you join as a FSDW Member or are approved as a FSDW Registered Donor - or make a low one off payment to list your message- no time limit!

Join us as a fan on Facebook- Help us change how people view private sperm donation. DIY Baby - Creating Choices!

When you have chosen your sperm donor you will need the
Complete DIY Baby™ Home Self Insemination Kit - Click Here!

DIY BABY Self-Insemination Kits - Order Online!

The DIY Baby™ Ultimate Self-Insemination Kit Includes;

* DIY Baby™ Self-Insemination Guide

* Donor Agreement Document

* Pregnancy Wheel and Ovulation Calculator

* Plastic Syringe

* Sperm Collection Cup

* 10 Ovulation (Fertility)Tests (needed to more effectively time day/s to inseminate)
Special offer- kit currently includes 15 ovulation test!

* 5 Pregnancy Tests - Special offer- kit currently
includes 10 tests!

* Folic Acid

A few FSDW success stories!

Hi Emma- just a quick message to let you know that after getting in touch with our donor through your site we are now pregnant.
Thank you so much for the worthwhile
work you do.

R and J x

Hi Emma

Just a quick note to say we are now cancelling our membership. We registered in January and after a few emails with donors we met a very genuine donor who has agreed to helping us start AI in June this year so fingers crossed all will go well.

Thank you for giving us the opportunity via your website to find a suitable donor.

V + A

Hi Emma, hope you are well, Just thought we best update you with our progress, We thankyou very much from the bottom of our hearts, we are pregnant after our first attempt, and today it was confirmed my partner is carrying twins.
Thankyou is not a strong enough word we can use. Our donor was excellent
and we have be able to build up a great raport with him. Once again
this service you provide has helped us achieve our dream .C and A

Hi there,
I would like to send you my thanks on behalf of myself , the gay couple I helped and our son who was born a few days ago, Your work is really important and helped us all achieve something in our lives which we wanted so very much.
Thanks again and all the best to your organisation for the future. D

Hi Emma, I just wanted to let you know that I wish to cancel my subscription to your profiles site for now as we have succesfully found a suitable donor (Yay!!) I'm so pleased and cannot wait to get started!!!
I have some more tests to complete at the doctors and will then be ready to get going,
I may purchase the fertile focus thingy at some point soon....
Please could you take my name off the list when this months subscription is up.
Many thanks for your help, I couldn't believe a site like this existed at first, it's superb
S and M xxx

Emma, I thought you might like an update, which i have only just got round to now because i have been so busy with my little girl. **** was born on ***** and is now nearly 3 months old. I cannot decribe how happy i am, she is just perfect and her big brother adores her! It is thanks to this website where i found the right donor, who is also very happy to have given our family a little girl, and we will remain friends. Thank you so so much.

Please feel free to show this
on your site, if you do i would also like to say, congratulations to everyone who has become a parent through using this site and lots of luck to those still waiting.
from A.

More Testimonials On The Subscription Page

FSDW Sperm Donors

FSDW offer a connections service for
single women, lesbian and infertile
couples around the world.

Today there are around
1100 UK sperm donors
1020 USA sperm donors
325 Australian sperm donors
160 Canadian sperm donors
90 New Zealand sperm donors and
300+ donors in other countries,
registered within the Member's Only area waiting to hear from single women,
lesbian and infertile couples!
Contact them directly today! .
You also get a FREE message on the public 'sperm donor/ co-parenting wanted boards' Good Luck Everyone! Em:-)

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Top Tips for Getting Pregnant Using Self-Insemination

What is self insemination?

DIY (do-it-yourself) or self-insemination, is a method in which the woman (or her partner ) inserts semen into the vagina herself, without medical assistance. This is surprisingly easy - and a useful technique for single women, lesbian and infertile couples, and heterosexual couples with sexual dysfunction.

How to self-inseminate - what is needed?

The most important ingredient is freshly ejaculated semen that is inseminated within 90 minutes max).
Ask your donor to ejaculate in a clean
glass or plastic container. Make sure this is wide-mouthed, so it’s easier for him to aim accurately – you want it all!
You can also use frozen semen samples from a sperm bank, after allowing them to thaw at room temperature.
Visit our Directory for listings of sperm bank - usually in the USA- that will ship overseas
if you live outside of the US

After the semen sample has liquefied (this takes about 30 minutes), you are now
ready to self-inseminate.
Suck up the semen sample into a 10-ml
plastic disposable syringe (without a needle) or use a turkey baster - although the small amount of semen does not require such a large instrument.

The semen now needs to be squirted into
the vagina- and as this is sometimes
tricky you may want to have practised this
a few times first- using water. You need to lie on a bed, with your knees and thighs bent,
and your knees wide apart. Guides the tip of the syringe into the vagina and put the
syringe in as deep as you can before
plunging the barrel, depositing the semen
into the vagina. Ideally you should try to
have an orgasm during the process- by stimulating the clitoris- not through
penetration or insertion of anything
such as a vibrator.
The only thing to go inside the vagina
is the syringe!

You may find it easier to lie on the edge
of the bed, with a pillow under hips so that
your hips protrude over the edge while you undertake the procedure . You can remain
lying on your back for about ten minutes,
after which you can resume normal activity. Some of the semen will leak out, and
this is normal.

While using a speculum is not essential,
it can help, because it makes it easier to
inject the semen at the mouth of the
uterus (the cervix). You can use a
disposable plastic speculum, and when
you insert the speculum, make sure the
blades are closed. You can slide it in
upwards, or else sideways, turning it
when it has been pushed all the way
into your vagina. When the handles are
above your pubic bone, squeeze them
together, which will open your vaginal
walls. You will hear a click when the
speculum is locked open. If you are inseminating with a partner s/he will be
able to see your cervix, which is round
and pink with an opening (the os) in the middle. The mucus may appear as a
clear bubble, or a thread like raw egg white.
You can use a mirror to see what’s
going on for yourself, if you so desire!
After the insemination, make sure that you release the handles and collapse the
blades before removing it from your vagina.

Some women use a cup or cap for self-insemination. Rubber cervical caps are designed for contraception (hence the
name "cap") but they can be used for insemination. There is also a cervical cup especially designed for insemination,
which is slightly larger and more shallow,
the name "cup" indicating that it serves
as a semen receptacle. You simply squat down, check the position of your cervix,
and insert the cap containing the semen
in that direction, holding it upright at all
times. Check all around the top of your
vagina to make sure that you didn’t
miss you cervix. The cup can be removed
after several hours. Take care to break the suction by hooking a finger over the
edge of it before trying to pull it out.

Timing the procedure is extremely
important, because you need to inseminate during your "fertile period".
Fortunately, it’s quite easy to determine
when you ovulate, and you can either
monitor your cervical mucus, or use an ovulation prediction kit.

More Fertility Tips and Info Can Be
Found Here

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Use the web site to find a private sperm donor
who will donate sperm to single women, infertile
& lesbian couples in the UK, USA, Australia, Canada, NZ without payment....anonymous sperm donation,
co-parenting, gay parenting - helping you to connect, you decide on your arrangement.
Buy DIY Baby™ home sperm self-insemination kits

. FSDW was the first, and is still the most successful private sperm donation connections web site on the internet! Bringing together women and couples with sperm donors- usually wanting no involvement post conception!

Free private sperm donations for single women, lesbian and infertile couples- Free Private Sperm donations UK, USA, Canada, Australia, New Zealand and worldwide and now Donors
Looking to Co-Parent!
Browse the public pages of sperm donors in the FSDW database before you join- our private
sperm donors will donate fresh sperm for
self-insemination- AI- without payment.
FSDW help you connect, you do the rest!

Unlike other sites that have crept up following the worldwide success of FSDW (formerly Sperm Donors Worldwide) where you have to pay to send or receive messages, you still simply pay a membership fee (similar to a dating site) and can contact anyone in the members area, as many times as you want during the 30 day period. No hidden costs or extras- that's all you pay- and you can cancel at any time. You also get a free message on the public sperm donor or co-parenting wanted message boards. One of the many reasons this is the longest running and still the most successful sperm donor connection web site on the internet! Donors also tell us they love FSDW because the women and couples tend to have thought long and hard about being a parent- and they feel more confident that arrangements will be adhered to - and that the child will be raised well. If you have any questions about the safety and legalities of private sperm donation or want to know how to track your cycle and know all about self-inemination etc, simply use our free info pages or contact Emma (The Child Listener™) We also offer the DIY Baby™ Ultimate Home Self-Insemination Kit online which includes everything you will need when you find 'your' donor- including donor agreement docs

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